Weinshet Kifle, 34, arrived in Brazil thinking she was the only Ethiopian in the country. (Seth Kugel/GlobalPost)

The only Ethiopian in Brazil

Alienated and out of hair gel, one woman struggles to hold on to her heritage.

By Seth Kugel - GlobalPost
Published: September 13, 2009 09:12 ET

SAO PAULO, Brazil — As an Ethiopian national living in the heart of Sao Paulo state’s sugar cane country, 34-year-old Weinshet Kifle is part of a very, very small ex-pat community: herself.

That means that unlike Americans in search of peanut butter in Paris or Brits craving cricket in Karachi, Kifle lives a life of almost complete isolation from her native culture in the half-million person city of Ribeirao Preto. Though she takes solace in a few traits the locals share with Ethiopians, like a natural friendliness and love of expertly cooked meat, there are no stores that sell berbere spice or teff flour, and no friends to chat with in Amharic.

“Being here is lonely,” she said. “Missing people is not easy. In my culture, I’m very close with my family, more close with my parents, and more close with sisters and brothers,” she said. She is the oldest of 10 siblings.

Her husband Brian Hamilton is the closest thing she has to a fellow Ethiopian — though the white 41-year-old British project manager, who came here to open sugar cane and ethanol mills, doesn’t look the part. He did live in Addis Ababa for six years, five married to her, and his jolly demeanor sometimes seem African-inspired, even if he Anglicizes her name to Winnie. “Our house in Addis was always full,” said Hamilton. “I’d have to book time with my wife. On weekends, I’d ask, ‘Oh, Winnie, how many weddings are you going to?’”

Here? “Empty house,” she said. “No one. Just quiet.”

In 2002, they got married before 1,000 guests in Addis Ababa (he knew 34 of them), and in 2007 moved to Malaysia, the first time Kifle had lived abroad. That was a big adjustment, too, but there were plenty of Africans in Kuala Lampur, and plenty of speakers of English — which she speaks comfortably.

How many Ethiopians currently reside in Brazil is a tough statistic to come by, but when she went to the Brazilian embassy in Addis Ababa to apply for a visa, the officer in charge told her there were no other Ethiopians living in Brazil at all. An Ethiopian woman married to a Brazilian man had once applied, but the officer did not think the couple had actually gone to Brazil. And it was such an unusual event to have someone apply that she was treated very well, Kifle remembered.

A bit of a technophobe before leaving Ethiopia, she now spends a chunk of time each day chatting with her siblings, two of whom live in Dubai, on the internet. She is also a loyal Facebook user. “I got all my old friends, I’m so happy,” she said. But Ethiopian internet service is very expensive, she said, so her family’s home does not have access. That limits her chat time with many friends and relatives to the morning hours, afternoon in Addis, when they are at work.

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Posted by mygenet on September 15, 2009 06:49 ET

well there is me and my husband!

Posted by mygenet on September 14, 2009 16:08 ET

i wanted to add ... weineshet is a very nice human being....i am thankful to God that i found her through FB otherwise i would have felt alone too. so this is a good opportunity that if you post this comment other Ethiopians that in live in brazil will hallar back and our rather small expat group might grow.

Thanx

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