"Sex pats" discover Ukraine's alluring women

Foreigners flock to Kiev in search of wives, girlfriends or just plain sex.

By David L. Stern - GlobalPost
Published: June 9, 2009 06:33 ET
Updated: June 9, 2009 18:49 ET
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“We are certain that the aim of your visit to our country is absolutely decent,” one flier says. “Unfortunately ... your compatriots come to Ukraine to get easy sex using the fact that Ukraine girls are poor, unprotected and naive.”

FEMEN strives to add teeth to laws against prostitution. At the moment, sex workers and pimps pay a a fine (although very small), while clients are left alone. The organization would like to see sex tourism defined in the legal code and clients punished as well, and possibly deported from the country. Recent anti-prostitution legislation was introduced at the beginning of the year, but so far has languished, Hutsol said.

Ultimately, FEMEN wants to change how all foreigners regard Ukrainian women, who suffer from an association with the sex trade throughout Europe, as well as how Ukrainian women view themselves.

“The basic problem is that we lack emancipation,” Hutsol said. “Men take care of us economically — men provide everything. Very few women see any kind of independent future.”

On a recent Friday night, Hutsol and her cohorts conducted a major action under Kiev’s central monument. German electronic-music celebrity DJ Hell provided the sounds for a mini rave, while dozens of college students paraded in avant garde fashion from local designers. At the end, a group of protesters, dressed only in bikinis, held up a banner and shouted, “Ukraine is not a bordello!”

Many young women among the hundreds of onlookers supported FEMEN’s message that foreign men should also appreciate Ukrainian culture and history, and that it was insulting when they spent their days simply chasing introductions.

The majority of those questioned, however, said that the foreigners were in general very respectful, and in many cases better behaved than their own male population. Many said that they had foreign friends and boyfriends, and that men would not come here if local women were not themselves interested in meeting non-Ukrainians.

“We love you all very much,” said Yana Pashchits, 19, a student, who was participating in the fashion show. “We want you to come here.”

Nevertheless, FEMEN’s message was lost on some of the crowd.

Three Danish 30-year-old professionals happened upon the action, just three hours after arriving in Kiev for a long-weekend. “This is what it’s all about,” pointing to one of their number’s T-shirt, which read, bluntly, “I Love Ukrainian Girls,” and staring at the half-dressed beauties parading around him. However, when told what the demo was actually for, and that they were in fact being interviewed for a Western publication, they insisted that they had not come just to meet women.

But Rasmus Anderson, a product manager, added, almost as an afterthought: “You have to agree that there are some very pretty girls here.”

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Posted by david wayne osedach on June 9, 2009 18:38 ET

What do the Ukrainian men have to say about all this? Or do they have any say at all?

Posted by vlad_xxi on June 11, 2009 05:42 ET

What do American guys going to say, prostitution is much wider spread in USA than Ukraine. It is global problem, if it is problem at all.
Western guys going to Ukraine as they can’t find anything back home or (in case of UK) most local birds are ugly, fat, smoking and drinking heavily.

Posted by yalo on June 9, 2009 21:38 ET

It is not true that Ukrainian women are dependent on men, it is actually the other way around. Ukrainian women during transition managed to find ways to support families by doing all kinds of odd jobs while the men in the meantime became alcoholics. That's why foreigners are in demand, not because Ukrainian women are "naive"

Posted by chiken_kiev on June 10, 2009 00:01 ET

Funny that completely by accident I came across a fairly feel-good story in American Glamour entitled "Yes, This Woman is Mail Order Bride" about a 20 year old girl from Dnipropetrovsk marrying an older New Yorker whom she met online; according to the article they're happily married 7 years later... just sayin http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2009/06/yes-this-woman-is-a-mail-or...

Posted by Mishael Kapitulskiy on June 29, 2009 10:55 ET

the reality is that most of Ukrainian men are simply too spoiled by how many nice looking girls are there! I don't think the economic problems are the major factor why women join agencies to find foreigners, it's just not having men!!!! i found it interesting to read this article: http://www.mordinson.com/news-ukraine.html

Posted by Mishael Kapitulskiy on September 12, 2009 13:34 ET

I want to share my own story of meeting a woman in Ukrane. Upon arriving in Kharkov the adventure began the following day. I met with 5 ladies, and all were very enjoyable, beautiful, and engaging, but I was immediately taken by Marina, I was unaware that she felt the same way. I had a hard time determining her interest at first because both Marina and I relied on the translator. I felt that if we met alone I would get a better feeling of where we both were as far as communication and comfort. Wow, I have never been one to fall head over heels, but I did!!! I want to thank Mike and Mordinson family for the help!

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