NEW YORK — On this Mother’s Day, the 276 girls ferociously abducted from their boarding school in Nigeria are heavy on my mind.
The question has gripped me: what would it be like if someone at this exact moment stormed in, kidnapped me, burned down my house and threatened to sell me into slavery? This for the so-called crime of being a female who is working or reading or using a computer.
It’s not lost on me, it could have been me. I attended an all-girls boarding high school my sophomore year in Northern Nigeria, not far from Chibok where the girls were taken. I know those girls figuratively. They probably look a lot like the mixed ethnicities of my classmates from all over the country. When I went to school we fully expected to make it home that evening, which is exactly my experience today when I put my daughter on the bus every morning to a New York City suburban elementary school.
What’s happened in Nigeria is outrageously incomprehensible. Simply shocking. Even for someone like me who spent years as a journalist covering monstrosities all over the world.
I try to stop myself from imagining the horrors they have experienced. I have no idea what has or has not happened. But I do know it is catastrophic for them, their families, their mothers and the nation. I alternate among terror for their safety, sheer rage it happened, and tremendous sadness. And on this Mother’s Day, which is celebrated Sunday in the United States and in many other countries around the world, I think we all need to stop for a moment and reflect on this atrocity and join in a global expression of outrage and a commitment to justice that is coming together through the Twitter feed #BringBackOurGirls.
This is not the Nigeria I know.
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